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Lieflotje,

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Story: I’ll always come for you

Chapter: 1. Chapter 1

From: You Are SHIT (Guest)

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You Are **:YOU’RE GRAMMAR IS **ING TERRIBLE! Don’t even write another story again. You spelt almost EVERY name wrong. It’s Schue not Scheu. It’s Blaine not Blain and it’s Artie not Arty! You **ing moron! Go kill yourself! No one likes your writing. Idiot!

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At first, thank you for taking the time to read and review my story, I appreciate it! =)

Secondly, I apologize for spelling the names wrong, it was just a typing error,  though I just doubted how to spell Arty. Thanks for taking the time to correct me! =D I immediately corrected it in my fic. I think I’ve corrected all the mistakes now, if I didn’t, feel free to correct me another time.

But I don’t think my grammar is that bad, I’ve seen a lot worse and I have my FCE exam, in two years also my CAE exam. =) And remember that English isn’t my vernacular, Dutch is…

And I’m sorry, I am going to write another story again. Actually, I’m going to post chapter 1 of that story this day. But don’t worry, you don’t have to read it!

And yes, there are people who like my writing. Look at the other reviews this (and some of my other stories) got, they are all nice. And there are also people like you, who don’t. And that’s their opinion, I don’t hate or Judge them for it. I’m sorry you didn’t like my fic, but I’m not forcing you to read it…

Oh, it’s also great that you didn’t actually use swear  words, but wrote them in a slightly less offensive way. That’s at least a bit polite of you. But I get that swearing helps when you’re angry. I don’t mind… =)

So thanks again for pointing out my mistakes, it’s too bad that you didn’t do it in a nice way though. But maybe you don’t know any better or are raised that way or something. I don’t know… I just wonder why, if you hated it so much, you took the time to write such a hateful message….

And maybe you’re right. Maybe I am a **ing moron and an idiot, but at least I don’t tell people to kill themselves… How can you live with yourself when you tell people that?! I’m sorry to disappoint you, but I’m not going to kill myself. But what if I did? What if your comment was the last straw for me and I took my own life? Do you know how much words can hurt? I may be able to brush this off and be like “whatever”. But there are people out there who can’t! Aren’t you ashamed?!

On the other hand, maybe you’re just hurt inside. Maybe you’ve been told things like that way more often. If that’s the case, I’m so so sorry for you. No one deserves that. =( You know, some people say that the meanest people need the most love. Maybe you’re one of those persons. Just know that I will never judge you. And if there is ANYTHING you need to talk to about, you can always come to me. Anon or not, I’ll be there for you. Maybe you’re just scared….

Maybe you’re one of those people, who can only feel better about themself, by making others feel worse about themselves… Maybe you’ve gone through lot…

If you’re not and you like insulting people, I’m very sorry for you too. I’m sorry that you think that’s okay and I’m sorry that that’s the way you think at all. Or sorry that you’re raised that way, etc. \

Just know that if you’re just hurt, if you wrote this because you’re hurt, I don’t mind. I spend my time writing this message, because of you, for you. So you are important, you are worth it… =)

I’m not going to lie, I was a bit shocked when I read that message. But I’m not mad at you and I don’t judge you for it. It just seems that you have a lot of bottled up rage. And you need to let some of it out at some point… I’m sorry that you feel that way.

You don’t need to apologize or something, but you’ll be such a better person if you just told  or showed me who you are. If you have the guts to insult someone and tell them to kill themselves, then also have the guts to show who you are! You can just come talk to me if anything’s bothering you, I will tell no one who you are, or that you wrote this. I just want to help you if you want…. =)

Okay, that’s ! =D Thank you for reading this endless rant! =3

Xxx Lies

I’m going to tell you something very important. My own tip for you, which you can use anytime you feel down. =)

Step 1: Let it all out. Everything, all the frustration and emotions you kept inside. In order to feel better, you have to let yourself feel worse for a while. Without being sad or down and letting it all out once in a while, you won’t survive. Seriously, be and think as depressed as you want, as long as it stays by thinking. People who never do this will live a life of numbness or denial or sadness. You think they’re the happiest, because they’re always “happy” and never feel this down. But you’re the one who lives the happiest life, for sure.

Step 2: Talk to someone. Although you feel like no one can understand, just having somebody listening and caring and just telling somebody will help you feel better. Choose someone you trust, someone who will actually listen. And if you’re looking for advice/help too, you should tell someone whom you trust so well that they won’t just tell you what you want to hear and are not afraid to tell you the truth.

Step 3: Do something to release the stress. Work-out, run, sing, shout, eat, sleep, take a hot bath, drink tea with cookies, watch a movie. Whatever you want, whatever works for you.

Step 4: Think about all the wonderful people you have in your live. Think about how loved you are. Think about the persons and reasons you’re living for.

Step 5: Now you’re finally feeling a bit better, you won’t have to see everything so negatively anymore. Then it’s time for this final and most important step. Make a list of all your problems, every single fucking thing that’s on your mind. First you are going to write why it’s bothering you, like why it is so negative. When you’ve done that you can start with writing “but” after everything and now you are going to write the positive aspect, why it isn’t as bad as you first thought it was.

I’ll give you an example. This was for a friend of mine:

- You didn’t get hired, which really sucks, because you want a job. You want to earn money and you’ve really done your best trying to get it. But this means that you can apply for another job! You don’t have to wait anymore with applying for another job, because you don’t know if you’d get hired for this one. That other job where you will get hired will maybe turn out even better than this job! You’ll maybe even earn more money! =D

- Your twin sister did get hired! What the fuck! Why the hell did she get hired and not you?! Why is she better? We’re twins for god’s sake! But this does mean that they don’t see you as one and the same person. And that she got hired doesn’t really mean she’s better. It just means that they thought she was more suitable for the job. Just think about it, what would she be better at? Getting a job? That wouldn’t be fair, because there are tons of other jobs out there where you would get hired and not her. Just try again somewhere else.

- You have no idea what you have to do this summer now! Now you don’t have a job, you’ll just sit at home, doing nothing and being bored out of your mind. While almost all your friends are gone on vacation. But you can spend your free time hunting for other jobs! Go to the beach, go out with a friend, go spot cute guys ;D, get brown, wright, go swimming, plan a family trip, volunteer, go help at summer events, read, babysit, make smoothies. The list is ever going! =D

- You feel like you’re social skills aren’t nearly as good as your intellectual skills, which also makes you feel like you can’t do anything and also aren’t good at anything. Because when it comes to it, your social skills are way more important, right? But why would that matter? People who’s social skills aren’t nearly as good as their intellectual, probably think the exact opposite! =D It both come in handy! And if you’re not that good at the social ones, does that say you can’t get better at it? No. You have a whole life ahead of you, you’ll become better at it soon enough. And you feel like you can’t do anything right, but I think you missed the part where you are really good at school and theoretic stuff! And I’ll be happy to give you a list with a lot of other things you’re good at! =)

- You kinda dread the end of school, because you’ll be separated from your friends. And you’ll be alone. But you won’t be alone, you will make new friends! I promise you, if you go on there with a positive attitude and let people see you want to be friends and you certain that you are a good one, you don’t even have to talk much. You don’t have to go to every person, because when you think that you’ll reflect it. That’s also the main reason why people get bullied, unfortunately. =/ And you can still talk to your friends, call them, message them, you can still meet up and go out!

- Your crush already has a girlfriend! But you’ll get over him, I promise. And if you’re really determined that you won’t, he’s the one and he’ll end up with you eventually, but that is no reason to just sit and obediently wait for him. And let me tell you something, how amazing, flawless and perfect this guy might seem. I can think of at least one flaw; He’s not with you!

 Wow, I think that was about it. =) I really hoped this helped you, at least a little.

Xxx Lieselotte.

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